All posts by Simone

About Simone

Recovering perfectionist. Saved by grace. Canadian.

moving backwards

I heard from him today.

He admitted he was wrong. That I’m wonderful. That he misses me. Words that I waited for months to hear. Words I finally found peace with never hearing.

Now that I am moving past him, he’s back.

Why do people leave if they won’t stay away?

If you want to go, you should go. I don’t want you to stay, no matter how much it hurts.

But don’t come back and expect me to fall for it again. To trust you not to break me.

capture and release

July 27

Today I woke up with an ache in my chest. I have been wandering around in a daze for so long that I’m not even sure how to label this feeling: This yearning, hopeful heartache that makes me excited, terrified, sad and angry all at once.

What do I do with it? I write. I bleed the feelings out through ink on paper. I capture and release them, instead of fighting to control them.

I struggle to find the balance between controlling things and just not caring about them. I want all or nothing. Perfection or disaster. I want my life to be the way it “should” be. If it can’t be that way, I just want to buy a bottle of tequila for dinner… I want a man in my bed… I want the power and the pride that comes from eating less and less. I want to throw it all away. I want oblivion.

But as great as it all sounds in the moment, I know how it ends. I’ve stumbled down that path many times. And it always leaves me with is the same dull heartache… with pain… with tears… with longing for more.

And I’m reminded God is the one real source of hope and joy and peace:

I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.

Romans 15:13